Celebrating Hanukkah: Helping My Kids Embrace Our Traditions

Image: A colorful menorah

By Elyssa Bloom

When my oldest son was almost 4-years-old, he was having a REALLY hard time with the holiday season. We are Jewish, but he really didn’t want to be. He wanted to celebrate Christmas just like he sees in stores, on TV, and like his friends do. But let me share with you what I have shared with him… because celebrating Hanukkah is also a lot of fun!

The Menorah

We get to play with fire every night. A little extra beauty in our home for 8 nights as we light the menorah and the candles melt on their own. The wax melts down onto the fancy menorah dish we bought, stains the countertop, and I am left with a mess. But that is beside the point; it’s really just so beautiful.

Image: A child sits next to a lit menorah, and with a holiday tree decorated for Hanukkah in the background
Sitting by the Menorah

Sufganiyot

Sufganiyot are deep-fried jelly doughnuts. The oil used to fry the doughnuts is reminiscent of the oil that miraculously burned—according to the Hanukkah story. They are so delicious that I barely care about the extra pounds I’ve gained or how I’m breaking out like a tween from all the grease.

Latkes

Deep-fried potato pancakes. Can you think of anything more delicious? I’ll wait. Again, weight gain and acne–a nice touch to every holiday photo. Check out this recipe from MMC contributor Rachelle Haime.

Image: An infant with a onesie that reads, "My 1st Hanukkah Ever!"
His 1st Hanukkah

Dreidel

A dreidel is a four-sided spinning top. It is a gambling game. My already competitive son now has a gambling problem–awesome. The game is typically played with gelt. Gelt is a chocolate coin. Again, weight gain and pimples–need I say more?

Presents

EIGHT nights of presents! My husband and I take advantage of these nights and use them as teachable moments. While we love watching our boys open presents, we remember how lucky we are to be able to give them gifts. We teach them that not everyone is as lucky as they are to receive presents. We ask them to choose a few gifts to give to someone who isn’t so fortunate. When my boys were little, it was an abstract concept. However, I think making this a tradition each year will eventually make sense to them. Also, please note, I am not the Grinch who stole Hanukkah. I am actually obsessed with this time of year. I have so much fun decorating, celebrating, eating (winky face), and just feeling so thankful!

Image: A family poses for a photo with matching Hanukkah PJs
Enjoying our Hanukkah PJs

If you’re celebrating Hanukkah, I would love to know, what is your favorite tradition?

Miami Mom Collective wishes you and your family a happy Hanukkah and holiday season! For a list of local family-friendly Hanukkah activities, check out our recently published Guide to Hanukkah Events in Miami, part of our Ultimate Guide to Miami Area Holiday Events & Activities.

Updated December 2025

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